Happiness Alongside Sorrow

An old man’s race

While young people are usually healthy and full of life, old people experience increasing pain, disease and death. That’s a conventional wisdom, and it’s not wholly wrong. Yet research claims that older people are happier than most age groups, with happiness peaking in our 60s or 70s. We often see people in their 80s and beyond who still live happy lives. Continue reading

Signs of Later Life

Four brothers. From the left, Wayne, Warren (author), Bob, Bill (who is younger and yet to have “senior” health problems).

Over a year ago I purchased hearing aids.

Several months ago I fell down the bottom three stairs in our house and landed with my back against the wall, chipping the plaster. No injury. 

In early October, 2019, my wife and I drove to Maine for vacation. Barbara planned to meet three high school friends in Bar Harbor, and I was hoping to explore Down East Maine, that part of the coast northeast of Bar Harbor. As we entered Maine, I began to shake uncontrollably. After dropping Barbara and reaching Lubec, at the New Brunswick border, I holed up in a motel, alternating between periods of cold shakes and fevers. A few days later when I picked up Barbara, we headed directly home, calling ahead for a doctor’s appointment and postponing a side trip to western New York to visit my oldest brother, Wayne.  Continue reading